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Gail Marlene Schwartz's avatar

OMG-rock climbing? I literally had no idea. But seriously, thanks for this, Ty. We just have to fucking do it. It's overwhelming, but only when it stays in our heads. When we put out an idea, an invitation, it can be very simple. Eventually, if we build it, they will come.

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Kirk Pineda, LMHC's avatar

Reading this hit a mark. The way we can have pleasant connections that don’t last or drift away, 1 to 3-offs with hookups that soon dissipate into nothing, subduing ourselves for the sake of others who are certainly more in need—and even in moments where we ourselves are the ones tired and spent, and thus we become the connection is lost.

It’s also so easy to become jaded and doubtful of others when these connections don’t survive long enough or create solid community. There can even be the occasional self-effacing thought because things aren’t panning out.

But I can agree that there is a necessity to keep going, to keep trying, and to show back up when it feels awkward.

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