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Gabriella Souza's avatar

As a fellow peony lover, I adore so much about this post, especially the part about you doing things for yourself.

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Ty (He/Him)'s avatar

Thanks, Gabriella. It's been one of the best lessons to come out of this journey.

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Patrick Merlihan's avatar

I've been looking at getting a tattoo since coming out. While I have found cool and pretty artwork to adorn myself, I haven't pulled the trigger. I want the artwork to be as amazing as the story behind it. Real personal meaning for me. Your column renews my search... which I will dig below the surface to find the one that resonates only for me. Thanks for the inspiration Ty. Your tattoo is incredible.

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Ty (He/Him)'s avatar

Thanks, Patrick. I'm sure you'll find the perfect design to share whatever story you want others to know :-)

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Mr. Troy Ford's avatar

It really is a gorgeous tattoo, Ty! (And nothing like the look of a fresh one :)

I used to have a work friend who would call me at my desk and say "I have peonies on my desk" and every time she said it, I heard "I have panties on my desk" and I would scream and she'd laugh, it was our thing... ::))

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Anne & those cats…'s avatar

Thanks for the lovely Mark Nepo quote - that one is a keeper. And I have fallen for peonies in a big way, so I really enjoyed this post. Peonies are exuberant and lush! Congrats on your ‘anniversary’! 🧡🏳️‍🌈

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Henrik Hageland's avatar

Such a beautiful tattoo but I'm a little scared from the look at your face when having the tattoo. 😱 I have been telling myself to get one. My old dream was a tiger at my lower leg outside, but I've always had the same as you not to get a tattoo... Now I start believing that I should have one!

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Ty (He/Him)'s avatar

I mean, he was repeatedly jamming needles into my leg so it wasn't exactly comfortable lol. However, I will say it didn't hurt as much as I thought it would and after he's done, the pain was very minimal (it also helped that I got the tattoo on one of the least painful places to get one on your body).

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Henrik Hageland's avatar

I would have given you comfort if I had been there, but now I'm at your side and looking forward to your writing!

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Anne & those cats…'s avatar

Thank you for the lovely Mark Nepo quote - that one is a keeper. And I have fallen for peonies in a big way, so I really enjoyed this post. Peonies are exuberant and lush! and congrats on your anniversary’! 🧡🏳️‍🌈

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Pamela Bayard Foard's avatar

Peonies are also great because you can divide the bulbs and make more peonies! I love your tattoo 💕

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